When we look back on the story and experiences of our life, it is important to recognize and applaud the influence of those who helped shape it. January, celebrated as Mentorship Month, offers a unique opportunity to reflect on the role mentors play in inspiring transformation in both our personal and professional lives. 

Mentoring, an age-old practice, continues to be a vital part of growth and development in various facets of life. It’s more than just guidance; it’s a symbiotic relationship where both mentor and mentee grow, learn, and benefit. The essence of this relationship lies in the transfer of knowledge, skills, and experiences.

Mentors, with their wealth of experience, offer guidance to navigate challenges, whether they be in a professional setting, academics, or personal growth. Their advice can serve as a compass, helping mentees steer in the right direction, avoid common pitfalls, and make informed decisions. As Steven Spielberg said, “The delicate balance of mentoring someone is not creating them in your own image, but giving them the opportunity to create themselves.”

Since I founded Memoirs Productions 24 years ago, I have been fortunate to mentor numerous personal historians along with family office advisors who have crossed my path and who are trying to include legacy preservation in their work. All these interactions have been memorable, as I have learned (almost) as much from them as they have learned from me. In addition, it has been very rewarding for me to see them succeed. 

Recognizing and appreciating mentors is important. Mentorship Month serves as a reminder to express gratitude to those who have guided us. A simple thank you (note/email/phone call), sharing success stories, or acknowledging their influence in our journey can mean a lot to mentors. It is also an opportunity for us to “pay it forward” by mentoring others, thereby continuing the cycle of growth and development for others.

We should all consider becoming mentors. It is giving work where we can contribute to a culture of learning, sharing, and growth that benefits individuals and communities. Mentorship is not just about helping mentees build a brighter future. It is also about creating a more knowledgeable, empathetic, and connected world.