Talk! Don’t Text: Strengthening Intergenerational Bonds Through Conversation

In today’s fast-paced digital age, communication often revolves around text messages, emails, and social media interactions. While these methods offer convenience for the generations that were born with it, and some elders who have become used to it, they all lack the depth and intimacy found in verbal communication. While text messages convey small bits of information efficiently, they often lack the ability to convey stories effectively. 

In my opinion, there is nothing that beats a heartfelt phone/video call between a grandparent and a grandchild. 

Family stories are precious lore passed down from one generation to the next and are best shared in person. However, when this is not possible due to time or distance constraints, video or voice calls serve as the next best choice. Voice conversations bring stories to life allowing family members to share anecdotes. The emotional resonance that comes from reminiscing about shared experiences, and with passing down oral traditions, will result in strengthening family bonds and identity.

Voice calls enable the listener to ask follow-up questions, delve deeper into experiences, or pivot to other topics, fostering meaningful interactions. To share laughter (or a tear)  on a voice call with a loved one will always be very meaningful!

Consider reaching out to a family member today to share one of your life’s stories. Here’s a suggestion: if you’d like to engage with someone from a younger generation who may not pick up their phone to answer a call, try sending them a voice memo with a family story! It can be a simple yet effective way to spark meaningful conversations and strengthen connections with your loved ones. And hopefully – they will likely listen to and save it!