Ten years ago, I shared the idea of writing a legacy letter—a heartfelt message filled with stories, values, and love for children and grandchildren. Back then, it was a simple invitation to pause and reflect on what truly matters. Today, that invitation feels more urgent than ever.

In a world brimming with digital noise and fleeting interactions, the power of both writing and receiving a written letter stands apart. It’s a gift of permanence in an uncertain world, an act of intention that says, “I see you, I know you and I love you.” As we launch into another year, let’s welcome this practice—not as a task, but as an opportunity.

A legacy letter reflects on the past year, capturing the moments, lessons, and values that have shaped you. It examines who you’ve become and shares in the hope that your experiences and insights will be of service to the reader, now and in the future. 

Beyond the message itself, writing a legacy letter has two profound effects. 

1. Sharing our stories and experiences brings us closer to one another today. It creates a sense of vulnerability and authenticity between ourselves and the reader. When we become emotionally transparent about our lives, highlighting our joys, struggles, lessons, and values—we invite them into our world. This exchange fosters empathy and understanding, deepening our connections.
2. It is also a gift to yourself, as self-reflection is a powerful practice. Taking this time of introspection allows us to find clarity, gain perspective, and in doing so, we not only share who we are but also deepen our understanding of ourselves and our values.

Early in this year, I invite you to sit with a pen and paper—or your keyboard—and write something deeply personal. Recount your joys, challenges, the lessons you’ve learned, and the dreams you hold for your loved ones. Be as honest and heartfelt as you can. It doesn’t have to be perfect; it just has to be real.

For those who aren’t parents, consider writing to nieces, nephews, godchildren, or anyone whose life you have touched. A legacy letter is more than words on a page—it’s a permanent hug, a gift that will outlast trends and transcend time.

Reflect, write, and share. The love and wisdom you capture now will echo for generations to come. 

Wishing you and yours a meaningful and joyful New Year.
Be well, go safely.